Meeting you at the time that I did was the best thing that ever happened to me.

And losing you at the time that I did was the best thing that ever happened to me.

And the most important lesson I ever learned and all my years of therapy and Al-Anon was that I am capable of holding space for opposing emotions at the exact same time. There doesn’t have to be all or nothing. It doesn’t have to be black and white. It can be this AND that. Both things can be true.

I love you with all of my heart and I always will. And, I am so grateful not to be responsible for you any longer.